What To Wear To A Black Tie Party Or Wedding

By Bridget Mora

Most of us lead fairly informal lives. So when an invitation arrives in the mail which states ‘black tie’, many women are left scratching their heads. What exactly does black tie mean (for a woman; the dress code is pretty straightforward for a man)? What is appropriate, what is too casual, and is there any type of outfit that would be too fancy? All your questions about what to wear to a black tie party or wedding are answered here!

Other than the very rare white tie event, black tie is the most formal, the most elegant, the most fabulous celebration which most of us will ever attend. Therefore, consider it an excuse to really pull out all the stops! It is the time for your most glamorous dress, spectacular jewelry, and maybe even professional hair and makeup. Go ahead and splurge on a dress that really makes you feel like royalty and pamper yourself with a trip to the salon for a manicure, updo, and makeup application the day of the event (you will have all day, since a black tie party properly begins at 6pm or later).

The perfect dress will be the most important part of your black tie ensemble. There are two choices, either floor length or an extremely fancy knee length cocktail dress. The long dress is the more traditional option, so if you are unsure that would be the safest bet. A slim to A-line skirt is appropriate for a floor length gown. A ballgown to the floor is another possibility, although you run the risk of being the most dressy person in the room. If a cocktail dress is the preference, it can be as slim or full skirted as you like.

What makes a dress special enough to be worn for a black tie event? The details! Look for a dress made from a fine fabric, a flattering silhouette, and sophisticated accents. If the dress is floor length, it would be fine to choose one made in a quality fabric like silk with minimal embellishments. A knee length dress, however, really needs some oomph to make it fancy enough for black tie – think crystals, sequins, and couture details like chic bows or handmade silk flowers. Make sure that the dress is very elegant, and avoid stretch materials, which are too ‘prom’. People tend to turn to dark colors for black tie events, although is is definitely acceptable to break the mold and choose a pale pink, silver, or other pale color. Just avoid white if you are a wedding guest, and please consider a color other than the ubiquitous black to wear to a wedding reception.

A fabulous dress is a great start, then you need to add equally glamorous accessories. Sparkle is always gorgeous for a black tie dress. Crystal chandelier earrings are the perfect type of accessory for a formal dress. Choose clear or ‘ab’ finish gems for classic crystal chandelier earrings, or have custom earrings made in a crystal color to complement your gown. You will definitely want a matching crystal bracelet, and most likely a coordinating necklace, depending on the neckline of your dress. If you love pearls, choose a pearl necklace with large diameter pearls to give your necklace presence. A strand of large Swarovski pearls and crystals in combination is a gorgeous way to add some sparkle to a classic pearl strand.

Of course you will need the finishing touches for your black tie outfit. A spectacular pair of shoes in silk, velvet, or patent leather will be ideal. A small silk or beaded evening bag for the essentials is also a must. A wrap or stole is a great way to deal with a chilly evening or an overly air-conditioned venue. Finally, think about a small ornament like a jeweled comb or silk flower to tuck into your hairdo. You will be ready to shine at the black tie event!

About the Author: Bridget Mora writes for Silverland Jewelry about weddings, style, and society. At http://silverlandjewelry.com/, we handcraft a fabulous collection of crystal chandelier earrings, bracelets, and necklaces which are perfect for any special occasion. All jewelry orders over $99 receive free shipping.

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